What makes a good woman?
Monday, April 18, 2011 @ 10:28 PM | 0 individual(s)
Is it the clothes? is it looking good? is it the cliche "personality counts" statement?
Personally i think it's all the above.
"let's take beauty out of the equation unless you talk about a beauty that exudes from a person, not just their physical appearance" however, an extra effort in looking presentable goes a long way.
I've read that woman tend to neglect their looks after too being comfortable with their man. I mean, i think every man want's to return to their woman feeling like a king,therefore the little extra effort you put into looking good for your man does count afterall, they do notice the difference even if men are infamous for not spotting the detail, even if it's just a dash of of perfume or to have your hair set in place nicely it really does count. You can agree to disagree but it's proven that the extra effort adds as a booster to self confidence.
"Whats within her heart"
Simple as it sounds, let's face it, we live in a world filled with pretentious people, hypocrisy is an addiction and so few choose to remain true. Take time to appreciate the good in yourself-strengthen it, and see good in your partner instead of waiting to find their every flaw and use it against them.
"someone who you'd consider as a best friend. Someone you can laugh a lot with. That goes for both me making her laugh and vice versa.Someone who enjoys a lot of the same things I do and I get to enjoy some of the things she does that perhaps I did not before."-altered from the original source
Learn to appreciate a man who take time to find out more about you and create small talks just to find more about you, or the man who knows your every little detail and still couldn't get enough. Or the man who stays up to put you to sleep on the phone. The one who sends good morning and goodnight text just to perk up and enlighten your day and end it by comforting you into the sweetest slumber.
Practice humility, be there when he's down, treat him nice and show him that you love him. Personally i do not want to be a good woman, i want to be a great woman, not just for my man, but for the people close to me as well. Lighten up and don't be so uptight all the time. Get your man to understand your needs and want's, having heart to heart conversations proves to strengthen relationships.
